Single Parenting - How to empower yourself!


 

Raising kids alone is not easy. You have no one to support or share your dilemmas and concerns. However let this not overwhelm you. Some tips to empower you to do what you want to.

1. Don't feel Guilty - You may feel guilty for the things you cannot provide or the time you may spend with your kids. For your good, try to focus on all the things to accomplish for the day and also show the love, comfort and attention to your little ones. Seek help as needed.
2. Take care of yourself - Include physical activity in your daily routine, eat a healthy diet and get plenty of sleep. Arrange time to do activities you enjoy alone or with friends. Give yourself a "timeout" by arranging for child to be with relatives or family friends least a few hours a week.
3. Lean on others - Work out a schedule with other parents in school or classes. Call on loved ones, friends and neighbors for help.
4. Plan and handle finances - Taking care of the family on a single income or being dependent on the former spouse is the toughest aspects of single parenting. It is important to understand about long term investments, budget money accordingly, plan for retirement and if possible try to earn more by working for more than one income stream.
5. Remain Positive - You may become overwhelmed by the demands and responsibilities of single parenting. You may also suffer the pain of death or divorce of your spouse. Despite all these, you need to stay positive as your kids may easily get affected by your moods. Exercise regularly, have enough rest and maintain a healthy diet to balance your life in all the ways. You may share some of the grievances with your kids, but also let them understand they are not the causes of your problems.

Even with all the challenges, single parents can bring up successful children. Show your child love, respect, and positivity to ensure that your child thrives in life.
Location: Pune, Maharashtra, India

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